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Sunday, November 26th, 2006

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A Life Well Lived

Sunday, November 26th, 2006

A few weeks a go my Grandfather passed away. At 84 years old he lived a full life and he did not suffer from any long pain before he died so I feel no agony, sorry that a great man is gone and grief that a loved one is no longer around, but no agony or pain.

My grandfather did indeed live a full life. He was an important figure in the community he lived in and almost everyone who knew him was touched by him in some way.

I don’t know a lot about my grandfathers life, I wish I had lived closer to him so I would know more –I wish I lived closer to my mothers parents for the same reason. But my parents grew up far from each other, Alabama and Minnesota are, within America about as far away both physically and culturally as you could get 50 years ago. In the end my family ended up in Virginia, about as far from my fathers parents as from my mothers.

What I do know about my fathers father is that he started life in rural Mississippi somewhere near Jackson. His father was an engineer on the railroad. My grandpa Beggerly grew up in a poor part of America during the Great Depression.

One story about grandpa Beggerly’s childhood that I have heard and was recently reminded of was how he earned money from his carvings. He would carve a tiny monkey from the heart of a peach pit and his father would sell the carving for a dollar on the trains. The heart of a peach pit is nearly rock hard and only about a quarter of an inch long. Whittling, or carving, is a rare skill these days and I can hardly imagine the patience, determination and skill required to complete the task of carving a monkey from a peach pit. It speaks of a lost time and a simpler life and of the character of my grandfather.

My grandfather joined the Merchant Marines at some point, I think before World War II but I am not sure. I know he learned a great deal about engineering, mechanical and electrical and many other things during his training in the Merchant Marines. Training that he would use over and over again.

Soon after finishing his training for the Merchant Marines my grandfather sailed acorss the North Atlantic to join the Allied forces in Europe. I only have bits an peices of stories at this point but I believe he took part in Operation Overlord and the D-Day landings as an Engineer for the Navy. I do know that after the liberation of Amsterdam my grandfather spent much time in the Netherlands repairing Navy ships.

After the war ended my grandfather was in Amsterdam for some time. Sometime after the war my grandfather, and I suppose many other men who served in the Netherlands, were invited to meet the Queen of the Netherlands. I don’t know the details about the meeting but I know my grandfather saved a bottle of wine presented to him by the Queen for the rest of his life.

I last saw grandpa Beggerly just before I came to Singapore in August 2004. I made the trip especially to see him, I had not been on vacation with my family for years. Knowing his health was beginning to fail him and that I might never get to see him alive again. While I have heard many of the stories above before much of my recollection of them is based on my last visit with my grandfather. Sitting under the oak tree in from of his house we all listened his stories and his politics and some of his stories again.

Unfortunately I was right about never seeing grandpa again.

Looking for information on carving peach pits online I came across this story, interestingly it’s also about loosing someone, a father in this case:

“Reflections on a Peach-Pit Monkey”, by Sam Keene, from the book Dancing with God:

“Once upon a time when there were still Indians, Gypsies, bears, and bad men in the woods of Tennessee where I played and, more important still, there was no death, a promise was made to me. One endless summer afternoon my father sat in the eternal shade of a peach tree, carving on a seed he had picked up. With increasing excitement and covetousness I watched while, using a skill common to all omnipotent creators, he fashioned a small monkey out of the seed. If only I could have it, I would possess a treasure which could not be matched in the whole cosmopolitan town of Maryville! What status, what identity, I would achieve by owning such a curio! Finally I marshaled my nerve and asked if I might have the monkey when it was finished (on the sixth day of creation). My father replied, “This one is for your mother, but I will carve you one someday.”

“Days passed, and then weeks, and, finally, years, and the someday on which I was to receive the monkey did not arrive. In truth, I forgot all about the peach-pit monkey. Life in the ambience of my father was exciting, secure, and colorful. He did all of those things for his children a father can do, not the least of which was merely delighting in their existence. One of the lasting tokens I retained of the measure of his dignity and courage was the manner in which, with emphysema sapping his energy and eroding his future, he continued to wonder, to struggle, and to grow.

“In the pure air and dry heat of an Arizona afternoon on the summer before the death of God, my father and I sat under a juniper tree. I listened as he wrestled with the task of taking the measure of his success and failure in life. There came a moment of silence that cried out for testimony. Suddenly I remembered the peach-seed monkey, and I heard the right words coming from myself to fill the silence: ‘In all that is important you never failed me. With one exception, you kept the promises you made to me – you never carved me that peach-seed monkey’.

“Not long after this conversation I received a small package in the mail. In it was a peach-seed-monkey and a note which said: ‘Here is the monkey I promised you. You will notice that I broke one leg and had to repair it with glue. I am sorry I didn’t have time to carve a perfect one’.

“Two weeks later my father died. He died only at the end of his life.” [1]

[1] taken from “In Memoriam” from the Harvard Radcliff, http://www.harvardradcliffe1956.com/memoriam.html as I cannot find a reference to the book it may be misquoted.

Foo Lion

Thursday, November 23rd, 2006

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Poke it with a stick?

Monday, November 20th, 2006

“The public wants us to have mastered the problem of dealing with asteroids. So being able to have astronauts go out there and sort of poke one with a stick would be scientifically valuable as well as demonstrate human capabilities.” Article [guardian.co.uk]

Where Laptops Should not be Taken

Monday, November 13th, 2006

I’ve seen people driving and talking on their cell phone. I’ve seen people driving and typing on their blackberry. I’ve heard people in the restroom talking on their cell phone. I’ve seen guys typing on their blackberry in the restroom. But today I saw a guy standing in the rest room taking a piss and typing on his laptop with one hand while holding it with the other.

I can’t believe there is anything in the world so important that one needs to type on their laptop while taking a piss at a urinal.

Montana and Virginia

Wednesday, November 8th, 2006

So once again we have an election and no final result… You’d think one of the most advanced countries in the world we could decide who won quickly. Part of me hopes that there will be calls for recounts using the electronic systems and that people will not be happy that they can’t really perform a recount on the paperless touch screens. Then maybe someone will finally do something about it and force the issue. If not then we may need the UN and the Carter Center to monitor the US elections like they monitor elections in places like Haiti and the Congo. At least the US does not have violent protests when people don’t agree with the outcome. Some would say that’s because Americans are mature voters, I think it’s just as likely that most Americans are apathetic voters.

Short Short Story: In a Sandy Court Yard

Sunday, November 5th, 2006

Masked. “Ready!” Afraid. “Aim!” Condemned. “Fire!”

Jos Sticks

Thursday, November 2nd, 2006

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I was born!

Wednesday, November 1st, 2006

Now I can get married!

I have to have my birth certificate to get married in Singapore—Passport apparently is not good enough—I’ve been told that this is so they know what sex you where when you were born. But being as I’m in Singapore and my birth certificate was in the US it took me about 6 months to get my hands on it. In the mean time I used my hands to pull my hair out trying to figure our where it was. I thought I knew where it was but when I had my mom look she could not find it! She finally came across it last week in a pile of her stuff—not in mine! Good timing!