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Siem Reap, Cambodia — December 2006/January 2007

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At the end of December, while my mother and sisters were still in Singapore after the wedding they joined Candice and I on a quick trip to Siem Reap [wikipedia.org] in Cambodia to see the temples of Angkor [wikipedia.org].

With only four days in Cambodia we set off for the temples as soon as we checked into the hotel in Siem Reap. We rented two drivers of what my guide book calls Remorque-moto’s but which everyone in Siem Reap called tuk-tuk’s. They are not like the tuk-tuks [wikipedia.org] in Bangkok, they are really 100cc motorcycles with a two wheel carriage attached. We overpaid the drivers but they were very knowledgeable and drove us around from temple to temple and around Siem Reap for four days, all days. All in all a very nice way to see the temples except for the dust. Cambodia has a lot of dust. All the socks I took have turned a permanent shade of Cambodian dirt tan.

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The Angkor Archaeological Park covers some 400 square kilometers and there are hundreds of temples so the four days we spent in Siem Reap was no were near enough time. But we did manage to cover most of the big sites. The best temples were Bayon [wikipedia.org], Ta Prohm [wikipedia.org], Banteay Srei [wikipedia.org] and of course Angkor Wat [wikipedia.org].

After the initial shock of the scale of Angkor wares off it is a bit sad to see the state many of the temples are in, not because of time but because of looting funded by rich art collectors. Many of the temples under restoration or already restored have lost a lot of their statues and reliefs and I can only imagine how much worse the temples outside the protection of the Angkor officials are.

I’ve wanted to visit Angkor since seeing the iconic photos of Ta Prohm and it’s trees. Today most of the trees that sparked my imagination are dead, though their roots still strangle the very bricks of the temple. I am glad I made it to Angkor now and I wish I could have been there some time ago. Since the number of tourist is increasing every year I expect it will not be long before Angkor is a sterile boardwalk roped off tour. The number of tour groups for Japan, China and Korea on the weekend was staggering—the main temples were packed shoulder to shoulder. Not as many Americans, Australian or Europeans. It would be better for the temples if the tourist were confined to board walks. I saw a group of Chinese men use the side of one temple as a piss wall—even though Angkor has gone out of it’s way to have the best public toilets in Southeast Asia. The Chinese nuevo riche are uncultured, rude, disgusting and can ruin any vacation. 5000 years of civilization does not show, a pity what Mao did to them.

The Chinese aside I hope that I can make it back to Angkor again. I am a bit disappointed in some of the photos—and the lack of photos of some temples. A nice trip but too short.

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ranting

We used to have heros

Wesley Autrey jumped in front of an oncoming subway train in New York. To help someone else who had fallen in. Both were uninjured after the train passed over them –with a few centimeters to spare. Amid all the awards and checks from famous people and big companies, amid the rush to be photographed with the hero, the hero reminded everyone of a simple sentiment, oft forgotten: “You see somebody in distress, you help out.” [reuters.com]

As refreshing as it is to see a everyman as a hero it is just as disgusting to watch the feeding frenzy. To see Donald Trump, Mayor Bloomberg, The Walt Disney Co, and others line up for the photo op, rushing to share the spotlight for a few moments to get some good press. If Wesley Autrey is a shinning example of humanity, deserving of praise, then all the others crowding into the photos are the greedy heart of capitalism that deserves to be shunned. I don’t begrudge Autrey the money they give him, but I despise their reasons for giving. But Capitalism works on greed and maybe others will be more likely to help an unfortunate soul now that they think they might get paid for it. Heroes don’t ask for payment but maybe Nietzsche was right?

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photography

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If you are interested in seeing more photos from Candice and I’s wedding Jim has created a Flickr group; Beggs’ and Candice’s Wedding

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ranting

A new journey

The preparations are almost done.

The invitations have been sent.

I’m ready.

I’ve always wanted to be married. I’m not sure why. I guess it’s a societal norm that I absorbed at some point. Maybe it’s because I want kids and when I was growing up the kids who did not have two married parents were ‘different.’ Of course this was the hight of the divorce culture in the US: the mid-80’s. For whatever reason I have thought of marriage several times over the years. I was never really ready but I knew I wanted to be married. Last December I decided I had someone I wanted to hang on to for the rest of my life.

It’s been a year since I gave away a rock and now the final days are ticking away before the wedding. I’m excited an nervous. I don’t expect anything material to change in my live once Candice and I are married but hopefully our love will continue to grow and we will become closer over the many years.

Life is a long journey, I’ve come from Charlottesville to London and now to Singapore. Along the way I have met many friends and loves and it is not without much thought that I now enter into marriage. From now the journey is no longer mine but ours, mine and Candice’s, and I look forward to all the future has to offer us and a long journey.

Every society on earth has some form of marriage I believe and it must server some deep rooted biological and psychological need and it is great that it also such a great joy. Though nothing material will change in my life when I say the words and sign the paper but I expect that in a very real sense everything will change. I can’t wait.

In the last few days before our wedding I won’t be bothered to record my life here but before I sign off for the next few weeks or month I wanted to say here, for everyone that I am ready, that I am in love and that I look forward to waking up next to my wife everyday for the rest of my life and to get lost in her eyes, in her smile and in her laugh.

I love you Babe.

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ranting

Best description of Singapore… ever.

Via S██████’s Livejournal [livejournal.com] I just read the best description of Singapore ever. Don’t let the fact that it was published in 1993 dissuade you from reading it: other then the to newspaper articles referenced being from ’93 the article could have been written yesterday.

Here’s a sample:

Singapore is a relentlessly G-rated experience, micromanaged by a state that has the look and feel of a very large corporation. If IBM had ever bothered to actually possess a physical country, that country might have had a lot in common with Singapore. There’s a certain white-shirted constraint, an absolute humorlessness in the way Singapore Ltd. operates; conformity here is the prime directive, and the fuzzier brands of creativity are in extremely short supply.

And better…

The local papers, including one curiously denatured tabloid, New Paper, are essentially organs of the state, instruments of only the most desirable propagation. This ceaseless boosterism, in the service of order, health, prosperity, and the Singaporean way, quickly induces a species of low-key Orwellian dread. (The feeling that Big Brother is coming at you from behind a happy face does nothing to alleviate this.) It would be possible, certainly, to live in Singapore and remain largely in touch with what was happening elsewhere. Only certain tonalities would be muted, or tuned out entirely, if possible. . . .

I have a feeling this issue of Wired was not on sale in Singapore and thought some things have changed (you can get Cosmo here now. You can even watch bar-top dancing in some pubs) most of this article is very applicable to life here in Singapore.

Most interesting is this article actually pre-dates the Micheal Fay incident!

Read on: Disneyland with the Death Penalty [Wired.com].